Thursday 19 April 2012

Devouring Books: I'll Take You There by Joyce Carol Oates

I really don't know what this cover is all about- it looks like bridesmaids, only there are no weddings in the story and the main character has basically no female friends so, like, there wouldn't be two of them... This has absolutely nothing to do with what I'm going to say about the book, but cover designers, really?! Get your shit together, yeah?


You know when there are those authors who write things, and the things they write are things that you've thought about often, but have never really said out loud to anyone because they don't live inside your brain and therefore would probably not get it because they've never thought about these things before. Joyce Carol Oates? It's like she gets me. And I'm not saying that I completely relate to her female protagonist/narrator, because she's a little bit too... I don't want to say clingy, but maybe too dependent on this guy she's in love with, but then again I've never been in love so maybe I just can't relate yet.

But anyway. This Joyce getting me thing isn't down to one character, or one story, but has built up over reading, what, 8 books by her over the last few years, and I think all of them have included at least one thing that I've thought about and never really verbalised to anyone. Here's the thing in I'll Take You There that got me:
"We never see ourselves, at all; we have no clear idea of ourselves; our mirror reflections reflect only what we wish to see, or can bear to see, or punish ourselves by seeing. Nor can we trust others to see us either. For they too see what they wish to see, with their imperfect eyes.
And this is something I think about LOADS, because I'm very aware of how we hardly ever see our own faces, so we don't really have a concept of what we look like when we're talking and laughing and basically just living, which is a good thing because I feel like everyone would be a lot more self-conscious if they did, but also, it's just so weird, because really we have no idea of what we look like at all. And then on top of that, you can't really know what others see when they look at you, because even if you're all dolled up and have bleached your hair and are wearing an inch of foundation; that guy you think is hot could be thinking that you look like a fucking freak, even if you think you're all hot. Hence how beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and being superficial and vain is really really stupid.

So anyway, this whole 'I think JCO gets me' thing might just be down to the fact that we both think maybe just a tiny bit too much, and in a way, that's what a lot of this book is about. Our narrator (isn't it annoying that I'm not using her name? That's because we never find out her real one, and I can't be bothered to look at what her pretend name for a bit of the book was) is a philosophy major, and there are a lot of philosophical concepts and things discussed which made me not a little gleeful because of my love of the wisdom and all, but none of this really gets in the way of the things that Oates is trying to discuss in the story (not that I would mind if it did. But some people might.) And man, what isn't she trying to discuss?! A major thing is the continual forging of one's identity, and the pitfalls that can accompany this as well as its eventual advantages, as well as looking for approval with all the wrong people, falling in love with an unsuitable man, and, just in a general sense, trying to figure out what the fuck to do and how the fuck to live. So, you know, nothing major.

Time to be critical now though. And much as I hate to be critical about Joyce (she GETS me, you know?!) I do have to say that I was underwhelmed by the first (of three) sections, which is never a good sign in a book. It's not that it's necessarily bad, it's just that... ok, something that I learned a long time ago is that I don't give a fuck about fitting in with others, if that comes with having to sacrifice doing what I want to do (look at me being like a rebel outcast! But really, I did learn that when I was about 11). And the first section of the book is basically all about that- our narrator joins a sorority and yet doesn't know how to act there and so is never at ease with these girls who have no regard for her anyway. And I was basically just like *eye roll* just stop caring about what they think and do! Which, thankfully, she does, and that makes the other two sections of the book much more enjoyable. The way I read this book was: it took me about 2 weeks to read the first section, and the other two I read in like a day. So, yeah- not a great start, but it's made up for later.

Basically I'm in love with Joyce Carol Oates and she therefore can do no wrong in my eyes. If you've already read some Oates and you weren't a fan, this is pretty much business as usual (and what a fine business it is, too!) so you probably shouldn't bother. But if you haven't? I feel like this would be a pretty good one to start with, as long as you ignore the cover and aren't expecting pretty weddings because there will be none of that. More... endless soul searching, less wedding. Ok? Good.

8 comments:

  1. I haven't read this one yet but I am a big fan of Oates' work. I have had some misses with her but when she does it right, she really does it!

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    1. She does indeed! Have you read Blonde? Because that's *probably* my favourite, except maaybe for We Were the Mulvaneys. But it's probably Blonde :)

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  2. That is too funny about the cover art. Not only the stuff you mentioned, but it also makes it look chick-litty, and JCO is anything but chick lit.

    Glad you liked it! I have A Garden of Earthly Delights lined up for my next JCO. I'm looking forward to discovering more books of hers. She really is an amazing writer.

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    1. I suspect it's trying to make her look chick-litty, so they can try to sell Oates to unsuspecting simpletons (OUCH!). But really, if someone picked this up and then found it was all about the emotional development of this philosophy major in the 60s... yeah, I don't think they'd be so happy!

      I haven't read A Garden of Earthly Delights, but I've discovered that there's SO MUCH Oates stuff out there! Like... I've really only read her very recent stuff (from like 2000-ish onwards) whereas them was published in like the 60s? So that's basically insane! And I need to catch up :)

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  3. I saw this book and was like "Oh I should read some JCO" and then I saw this cover and thought "Maybe I'll try something else first". Then I left without any JCO because their copy of Blonde was HUGE. But I do still plan on reading that. And maybe this one too, but after I get some other JCO.

    Also the whole "we never really see ourselves thing" is awesome and also in a book I was reading where one of the people there came to the similar conclusion and especially that mirrors can't be trusted. Of course that person was on LCD but I think this just proves that it's a sane thought, even if it's coming from someone tripping. Or at least a thought sane people have had. Or both you and JCO were also tripping when you thought this.

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    1. Duuuuuude- ok, it is like a totally trippy thing to think, BUT I would say that studying philosophy is JUST as good as hallucinogens when thinking about stuff like that! Like, seriously. But I still think it's valid! I'm just going to be quiet now and think my deep, useless thoughts la la la la la! :)

      I love that you walked away from Blonde because it was enormous! I think my copy has like 900 pages, so yeah, what can I tell you, it's a big book! It's so good though. We Were the Mulvaneys is a much more manageable length and it was my first Oates, so I think you should read that first and we can be like matching book buddies! Or something...

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    2. Haha philosophy = LCD. got it!

      I didn't realize Blonde was so huge! And I still want to read it, but perhaps on my Kindle cos the thought of lugging 900 page book in my bag makes me sad. But I will be on the lookout for We Were the Mulvaneys that way we can be JCO book buddies, which is totally a thing now that you've said it.

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    3. This Kindle idea is almost definitely a good one- I read Blonde when I was ill and in bed for like a week (I wasn't *that* ill. But it was a nice rest haha) so I didn't have to think about the transportation issues.

      JCO BOOK BUDDIES! YES!

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